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At some point, we have to stop the merry-go-around of life and sort ourselves out. Take a reality moment that allows us to see where we have been, where we are, and assess where we want to go and if we are on the path that will take us there.

It’s mind blowing how long we will travel down the wrong road in life, knowing it’s the wrong road. But the logic is the same as people who drive somewhere they’ve never been and end up lost. Instead of stopping, reassessing, or asking directions, there is this irrational part of the brain that advises that if you just keep driving, eventually you’ll figure out where you are….or somehow mysteriously end up where you’re suppose to be. It never seems rational in hindsight, but always seems logical at the time!

When I had my children in the car and we would be driving and end up someplace unexpected, they would ask me “Mom, are we lost?” And I would always answer “No, we are not lost we just don’t know exactly where we are, you are always someplace”. Being someplace we weren’t suppose to be ended up creating some of the most interesting adventures that we ever had. (Keep in mind this was all before the day of mapquest and GPS *smile*)

And that philosophy works when you are just tooling around not in a hurry to get anywhere….but if you have a precise destination and a time frame that needs to be adhered to, constantly going in the wrong direction, ending up miles from where you’re suppose to be, and always starting over can be frustrating and get you nowhere.

The Internet is like that for most people who just show up looking for a way to create income for themselves. Showing up empty handed and clueless can turn into a disaster really fast because there is no shortage of people, websites, businesses, products or services…all telling you they are your answer for getting where you want to go. It’s like a child showing up in a candy store with a buck in their hand, and looking around at the 10,000 different varieties of candy they can spend it on.

The process of making money on the Internet, and again we are talking about life-changing income, not chump change,…starts BEFORE you ever access the world wide web. And of course the biggest hurdle in that truth, is that most people have to come to the Internet before they discover it. And unfortunately it ends up buried within the barrage of information, advice, experts, guru’s, and courses that all promise them they can be wealthy without bringing anything of themselves to the table. Starting the process without a clue what you are looking for will take you down an entirely different path then the one you were looking for when you came online. And how long you stay on it, going in circles, will totally depend upon how long it takes you to separate truth from fiction.

Showing up clueless, leaves your dreams at the mercy of others to make it come true. And the odds of that happening fall into the same category as winning the lottery.

The Internet can either be a priceless tool that excels and propels you to the finish line of your dreams, or it can be a life-sucking vortex you fall into that keeps you spinning around, but never getting anywhere. And the difference between one scenario from the other is what you have in your hands BEFORE you get there.

It takes 3 things to create life changing income –
1) Passion
2) Focus
3) Unfailing Consistency

PASSION - You absolutely have to identify what you are passionate about, what you care about, what excites you, what never grows old to you, BEFORE you go looking for a way to create income online. Once you identify that, THEN the Internet can become a magic carpet ride that takes you where you want to go. Picking some impersonal, nondescript business, product or service based on supposed ‘earning potential’ – (which very rarely is true) won’t keep the fire lite under your feet, or a passion burning in your heart for what you are doing daily. And how long do you think it will take you before you are tired of it, before you have to force yourself to go through the motions….especially if you arent generating money?

A lot of people can’t see how what they are passionate about in life, can turn into INCOME. That is the beauty of the Internet, you can turn ANYTHING into income if you are passionate about it. But you don’t go online to find your passion, you come online with it in hand. The ONLY way to create life-changing income, is to spend your life in pursuit of a worthy goal…and the only thing worthy is whatever ignites the fire in the core of your being.

FOCUS – Once you identify your passion, you have now added one of the most important elements necessary for your success, you can now FOCUS on a ‘purpose-driven’ life. You can punch in the destination on your life’s GPS system because having a focus will constantly identify for you the direction you should go. You can now approach the Internet as the tool it is meant to be. You go online and look for the various ways others who share the same passion as you, are finding to create income for themselves. And, You REFUSE to be sidetracked by irrelevant information! If it doesnt get you closer to where you want to, it is not worthy of your time.

We have not been left in the dark to wonder and guess what we are passionate about in life,…it is in you, and you know it….you just may have never followed your heart because it didnt sound or look practical. That is one of the greatest deceptions you will ever be faced with, whatever is in you, is purpose driven, you will have to trust it. There is no such thing as FOCUS without first having a defined purpose.

UNFAILING CONSISTENCY – Once you have identified the passion, the purpose,..and you have pinpointed your focus, then it is time to apply the kind of consistency to the pursuit of your dreams that gives life meaning. It is not about it being easy, or always feeling good, or not coming up against some pretty high hurdles that are seemingly impossible to jump over…it’s about living a life that energizes, invigorates, stimulates, and serves a purpose in the scope of the bigger picture. Following a passion always serves others first, and in return, our own dreams are realized.

The reason success is not the cake-walk everyone wishes it would be, is because the road to success was never meant to be easy, it was meant to be a worthy journey in light of the prize at the end.

Wanting to create income for yourself online doesnt begin with a google search, it begins with searching your own soul.

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The Valuable Gift Of Choice

It is not an easy pill to swallow when you finally come to the realization your success isn’t going to be facilitated by simply “plugging into” something…. and having your dreams come true.

Success is a process, not an overnight miracle. One thing we’re still trying to get the hang of in this world of instant gratification and instant access… is that technology, as wonderful as it might be….cannot supersede the laws of the universe. It can act as a tool to excel a process, but it cannot take the place of, or override the laws that govern the process.

Being raised a farm girl in Nebraska, I am intimately acquainted with process of planting and harvesting crops…and despite all the improvements and latest-and-greatest seeds, tools, fertilizers, and machinery….there still has never been anything that allows a farmer to forgo the tilling of the soil, the planting of the seed, or the time-lapse of months between start-up and harvest.

Billions are made every year by hucksters promising people they can forgo all the hard work and the delayed gratification of what they want in life…whether it’s weight loss, fitness, wealth, or happiness. We all want to be told we DONT have to pay the price for what we want in life,…that rather for the RIGHT price, we can simply have it handed to us.

Why we continue to set ourselves up for the inevitable let-down when that miracle pill, magic formula, secret cracked code or wonder drug doesn’t work, is irrational! *smile* They say the reason mankind dominates the earth is because of our brains,…but lets be frank – when you look at scenarios like that, you have to wonder. Don’t we all know better by now??

The most valuable gift we have in life is “Choice”….the ability to make a choice. To speak something and make it happen, to believe something and make it so, to have the power to change things and make it a reality. There are consequences to everything in life,…including NOT doing the things we know we should.

Not starting that diet and exercise plan when you know you should…keeps you fat and uncomfortable.
Not starting the fitness regime that you promised yourself you would…keeps you unhealthy.
Not taking the time to lay the groundwork, and do the hard work of success,….keeps you poor and unhappy.

Quick fixes, magic pills and instant wealth are the placebos in life that keep you from succeeding.

Remember, if you feel like where you are in life is not totally your fault,…once you know that change is necessary to create the results that you want, you must make a commitment to yourself today to make those changes.

No matter where you are today, every day provides you with the opportunity to make NEW choices that create NEW beginnings, that lead to NEW endings.
It’s as simple as making “a choice”.

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Your Money Blueprint

It is imperative that anyone who truly has a desire in their heart to amass wealth…understand your own Money Blueprint. It can’t be stressed enough how YOU can be sabotaging your own success, just like I was mine,..because of the messages that you hold in your subconscious about money itself.

We can’t encourage you enough to go and listen to the FREE Teleseminar that T.Harv Eker is giving TONIGHT. It starts at 6:00 pm PST. IF you are serious about success then -   Sign up for the FREE Seminar tonight

You can click on this link to do it – when you get to the page, the sign up for the free seminar is in the lower middle.

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T. Harv Eker is right on when he talks about the formula that determines how you create your reality and wealth.  It goes like this:  T + F + A =  R
Thoughts lead to Feelings.
Feelings lead to Action.
Action leads to Results.

What are your Thoughts, Beliefs, and Habits?
How do you really feel about yourself?
Do you believe that you deserve wealth?

Have you noticed how some people either can’t attract money, or, they have money but they lose it?  It is all directly related to their Money Blueprint – Which Harv will be talking about on the call tonight…as he says - “The vast majority of people do not have the internal capacity to create and hold onto large amounts of money and the increased challenges that go with it.

A perfect example is lottery winners. Research shows that most lottery winners eventually return to their original financial state the amount they can comfortably handle.

Your Money Blueprint will determine your financial life – and even your personal life. If your money blueprint is set for LOW, then you will attract a partner who is also set for LOW so you can stay in your financial comfort zone, and validate your Money Blueprint.

So how is your Money Blueprint formed? It consists primarily of the information or ‘programming’ you received in the past, and especially as a young child.

You didn’t come out of the womb with your attitudes towards money. You were taught how to think about and act in relation to money. The problem is that most of us learned how to play the money game from people who weren’t very good at it.

We are conditioned in three primary ways in every arena of life, including Money.
1) Verbal programming - What did you hear when you were young?
2) Modeling – What did you see when you were young?
3) Specific Incidents - What did you experience when you were young?

Whatever your associations are, they have the power to run your financial decisions for the rest of your life – Unless you revise your minds money files.

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And that is why…ALL of us, need to examine what our Money Blueprint is!

If you go and read “My Story”….you will hear me tell you about my father, and how he was the epitome of the American Dream. Starting with nothing, and in his lifetime accomplishing exactly what he set out to do. Watching him work hard, struggle, tackle obstacles with confidence, not because he had all the answers, but because he was confident he WOULD find them…no matter what…I had a living, breathing, example…that set for me the bar of my own goals.  I thought I was a shoe-in for success. That I would be able to accomplish even more than my father, because I had the advantage, the edge,…him..who showed me how.

I did everything I knew to do -  to create my success. Unafraid to work hard. Unafraid to face the unknown. Unafraid to come up against challenges and obstacles. But regardless of this undying effort, I could never get over the hump, never climb to the pinnacle of the success I KNEW could be mine. Why?

I thought that ALL you had to have was the right business, product, or service,….the right marketing plan….and an uncompromising work ethic,…and it was a sure thing. So why wasn’t it?

When I heard T. Harv Eker the first time – I reexamined everything. YES – my father was a shining example of how to be a successful entrepreneur….but that was not ALL there was to the story. Our home was absolutely miserable! One constant fight and bitter argument scenario after another. If my mother badgered my father long enough to convince him to go on a vacation, he would be glued to a phone pretty much the whole time. He worked so hard,…and in retrospect, it is all he did.  I heard the messages over and over again:
* ALL you care about is MONEY!
* I would rather be BROKE than unhappy!
* Money is the root of all evil and our home is an example of that!
* You don’t need or love a family, all you need and love is Money!

And trust me, the list goes on. *smile*
I never connected those messages with my own inability to get where I wanted because I felt that I “knew better”...that my own thoughts were a countermeasure to what I heard.
* Money isn’t evil, it’s how people use it.
* Working to have money isn’t bad, but you need a balance in life.
* Wanting to be wealthy, to have more in life, is a worthy goal.

But regardless of what I THOUGHT I knew,…or was thinking,…as an adult subconsciously I was linking money to “pain” and “unhappiness”. so naturally, just like an example T. Harv gives, I was getting rid of money as fast as I could in order to avoid the pain of it!

Weird huh? How you can actually THINK you know better….and be acting on your subconscious mind instead of the obvious.

That is why we HIGHLY RECOMMEND that you take a serious look at your own Money Blueprint,..and attend T. Harv Ekers FREE seminar tonight.  The only thing more frustrating than not making the money you deserve, is to be the CAUSE of your own demise, without even realizing it.

To your Growth and Profit..

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Taking The Time To Succeed

TIME is one of our greatest commodities nowadays. Moments of “nothingness” are almost non-existent, technology has seen to it that we are instantly accessible -  no matter what we are doing or where we are. Setting time aside to do something is a planned event, it doesn’t just happen…and if you wait until you ‘aren’t busy’,  to accomplish whatever it is you hope to do, it will never get done. It doesn’t matter if it is that little do-it-yourself home project, or going to visit an old friend.

So sure,…you are busy, your time is limited, and there is a list of ‘to do’s” just waiting for you – if you can spare a moment. But while the rush of moving from one thing to the next is going on, so is ‘time’. Days turn into weeks, weeks into months, and months into years, and one day you slow down long enough to notice and say “Where has the time gone?”

Whatever it is you want, wherever it is you want to go in ife, you can be sure of one thing -  it won’t just magically happen, it will only come to be through your INTENTIONAL actions.

What’s funny  – is how many of us can read a statement like that, know implicitly its truth, and then go right back to doing whatever we were doing, never altering our actions or taking the deliberate steps to make our dreams come true.

The majority of people reach up, take their dreams off the shelf and dust them off, whenever their realities become challenging. Whenever the struggles of life get intense, whenever they need to touch something  that gives life more meaning than the day to day battle for survival. Their dreams serve as little more than a placebo to get them by.

We are all guilty of that behavior it is just a matter of how long we continue it before changing something, if ever.

I believe our dreams are GIFTS that are presented to our soul at birth, and we have a life time to discover them, unwrap them, embrace them, and live the joy of them. Sadly, most never will. Your dreams are in constant competition with the moment to moment bombardment of everything else that demands your time and attention, those things that seemingly can’t wait.

You experience “moments” of clarity in life where you are “reminded” of your dreams existence. In those moments, unless you take deliberate action to hold tight to them and pull them from the world of non-existence into a world of reality, they will simply disappear under the surface of life’s busyness once again.

Wherever you are in life now, however old you are, whatever circumstances surround you, no matter how far away your dreams seem,…providence only asks one thing of you -  that you start. That you start walking one step at a time, one foot in front of the other,  in the direction of your dreams. That you start doing daily the small, seemingly irrelevant in the scope of things actions…that move you closer and closer to where you desire to be, to where you want to go.  That you be committed to setting aside some of the busyness that consumes you today, for the pursuit of living the dreams of tomorrow.

There is no way to get away from the fact that it’s going to take more than just a business, a product, or a service to access the success you desire in life. Success interact with every aspect of our lives,..the mental, the physical, the verbal and the soulful.

You can’t avoid it, to achieve success in life,….you have to take the time to succeed.

To your growth and profit,

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Okay, Wait A Minute….

I will be honest with you,..yesterday I sat and wrote and deleted this information at least 30 times,…and ended up NOT POSTING anything…lamenting over the best way, the most effective way, to tell you what you need to know. Every time I got done writing the post I looked at it, evaluated it, like I do every post, always wanting to be sure to give you information that is blatantly truthful to a fault if necessary…and exactly what you need to know to change your life, if that’s what you are looking to do.

And as I read it,…as good as the information was that was shared, I realized I was struggling with the post so much  because there are actually a couple of essential steps that need to be gone over prior to ever considering your “Online Marketing Strategy”.

The struggle we encountered, endured, and overcame to get to the place where we could create the kind of income we do now, was no picnic. It was an intense and expensive learning process. The reason it ended up taking so long was because the answer was under the LAST rock we turned over, the the last place we expected to find it.

Our lives and our finances changed when we discovered a “primary business” is only a component in wealth…not wealth itself. That the right Marketing Strategy is what creates six-figure incomes. And yesterday as I was writing,…I remembered that even more important than those two things – you will NEVER become financially well to do if you have the wrong “Money Blueprint” in your mind to work with.

One of the main reasons that so many people fail at creating income for themselves is not because the information isnt out there to show them how to do it, it is because they REPEL wealth like Off does mosquito’s. They think they want it, but they have a message in their sub-conscious mind about money, that prevents them from ever obtaining it.

It took me a long time to come to grips with the Money Blueprint I had in my mind, because on the outside everything pointed to me doing everything it took to create wealth. No one worked harder,..dreamed bigger,…or believed more,…in a persons potential to do and have whatever they wanted in life. But yet, for all the work, the dreams, and the belief I had,…what I didnt have, was a life that mirrored it. That was a shining example of it. Sure, I achieved, I had some success under my belt, and I had some accomplishments….but it was a far cry short of what I imagined was possible.

I am an extremely strong, aggressive, and determined person…the idea of anyone ever seeing me cry, is an obnoxious and repulsive thought. *smile*  But more than once I locked myself in the bathroom, put a towel over my face so no one would hear me….and sobbed in frustration at working so hard and not having what I wanted to show for it. It never occurred to me the reason I wasn’t where I wanted to be… had nothing to do with how hard I worked, dreamed, or believed,…but because something much deeper was taking precedence…my internal Money Blueprint was in control…not my outward actions. It wasn’t until I dealt with my sub-conscious MONEY BLUEPRINT that I started to attract the money I had been repelling.

So here’s the deal -
100% of you HAVE your own money blueprint stored in the back of your mind. Is it working for you, or against you? Is it attracting, or repelling the wealth you desire? Are you feeling like you are doing everything you can to create the life you want, but still not seeing it happen?

Here’s what we know,….no matter how effective, how relevant, or how amazing the information is that we share with you is for creating wealth for yourself online,  without the right money blueprint, it won’t get you any further ahead than you are now. 

The expert I turned to in order to get myself on track ‘mentally”, was T.Harv Ecker. The guy is profound! You need to evaluate whether or not what might be holding you back is that you have the wrong Money Blueprint to create the life and the lifestyle you genuinely want. THEN we can move on to the details, the grunt work of creating wealth.

Listen to this short promo,..then click on the link below it which will take you to a page where you can sign up for a free tele-seminar. Which is what I highly recommend.

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You’re income can only grow to the extent that you do.

To Your Growth and Profit,

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Over the next – however many days it takes – we are going to be sharing with you a lot of hard-hitting, highly-effective information that will lay out for you “How to find a legitimate home based business” and provide you with a detailed map for exactly “How to create a long-term, substantial income” with that business online.

There are a few things we want to point out from the get-go – as we share this information with you – we will be recommending and providing links for you to access the tools we personally are actively using right now, and believe are the very best out there at this time on the Internet. If you have a tool you believe will do the same thing as the ones we recommend, feel free to use yours – but it’s a variable we can’t account for in the end results. As a side note – when you see HBB - it stands for Home Based Business.

When we started on the Internet we thought ‘The First Step’ to success was to find a legitimate Home Based Business with a phenomenal product or service that everyone and their brother would want – but 5 years of failing and a $250,000 learning curve, taught us otherwise. If you follow that road map by starting with and investing in a Home Based Business you’re excited and enthused about,  chances are within the first three to six months you’ll watch your enthusiasm and your dreams go down the toilet because you aren’t generating enough income to sustain the reoccurring monthly expenses – like the website, the autoship, and the marketing.

When you start your HBB experience by investing in a business, product, or service ‘first’ – what happens is you get sucked into the marketing vortex of the company itself. You rely on the company to set you up with a Marketing Strategy for successfully advertising and making money with the company.

THAT’S A MISTAKE – here’s why -
All the company knows is what is best for the company, and rightly so, their bottom line is their survival  – and what is good for the company is for them to have you put 100% of your time, effort, and marketing money into Marketing the Company.

But here’s the FLAW with that as far as YOU’RE concerned – The Cold-Hard indisputable fact for Marketing a HBB online is – 98% to 99% of the people you put your HBB in front of – WILL NOT – even remotely be interested in it.

Now lets say this is a real top notch company! (what other kind would a smart person like you choose, right?) And they provide you with company banners, ads, autoresponders, websites, capture pages, videos, etc, etc.  And lets say it’s top of the line advertising material, the best you’ve ever seen! Wonderful!

BUT – if only 1% – 2% of the people you expose those awesome marketing tools are even going to look at them....do we even need to point out the very obvious problem with the Company Marketing plan??

If your target market is ONLY THOSE INTERESTED in your HBB – you’re leaving 98% – 99% of your marketing money and your prospects on the table! Out of every $100 you shell out, you are throwing away $98 – $99 dollars of it.

And think about this - If you’re putting 100% of your time, effort, and marketing money, into trying to generate a 6-figure income, or ANY income for that matter, from a mere 1% – 2% of your prospects…it ain’t going to happen anytime soon! That’s why people desperately CHASE the 1 or 2 people who even show an interest in their business, it’s slim pickens when that’s the marketing strategy your following!

The toughest part about presenting this information to you is THAT is how the majority of you have been taught, coached, advised, and mentored, to Market a HBB – and what we are going to tell you is contrary to that. But keep an open mind and remember we also followed that path for years. Our success today is directly related to A CHANGE IN OUR MARKETING STRATEGY.

Okay,…so for today, what we want you to try to wrap your head around that concept – that before you ever worry about finding or investing in a business, product or service,..you have to FIRST develop a Marketing Strategy that overcomes the obvious flaws of marketing a HBB.
A strategy that –

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Acknowledges 98% – 99% of those you are going to present your business to WILL NOT be interested.
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Has a plan in place for allowing you to capitalize on the 98% – 99% regardless of their interest in your business…creating a cash flow that helps sustain the expenses associated with whatever business you get in.

QUESTIONS ON THIS? Use the comment box to ask.
Tomorrow, we will share OUR strategy, that you can copy, and follow.

To your growth and profit…

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How To Find, And Create Income, With A HBB

We get asked a lot – “What is the Best Home Based Business Out There?” – of course we believe the company we are with meets all the requirements of what a great HBB should have – but – we also don’t believe there’s any such thing as “one-business-fits-all”. magnifying-glassSo rather than talk about a specific company we are going to share with you how to find, and create income, with a Great Home Based Business.

Some of things we say will SURPRISE you, they might even be contrary to everything you have heard or read on the Internet so far. There is a lot of information out there, a lot of home based business propaganda and advice, unfortunately most of it is wrong or misleading, and someone is usually trying to make a profit from it.

So  stick with us,…and we will take you down the road of our vast experience and provide you with the kind of credible information that cements for you how to find a legitimate business. THEN – we’ll provide you with a blueprint for mapping out exactly how to start creating income for yourself with that business and you can systematically watch both your business and your bank account grow!

As we start this journey with you – we want to clarify something -  the information we’re about to share with you over the next several days is to help you find and establish a REAL Home Based Business. We’re talking the kind of business that’s around for the long-haul.  The kind of business that grows… and your income grows with it. The kind of business where you are creating “3 kinds” of income:

1) Incentive Income – Upfront compensation from Company
2) Residual Income – a Network Marketers 401K
3) Passive Income – for cash flow and sustaining business expenses while you grow.

The information we are going to share with you is for creating a “sustainable, long-term, substantial business and income” for yourself. This is not a “quick-fix” to what ails you, it is a path to financial stability and establishing something you can grow with that rewards your effort.

Even though everyone of us that get into business for ourselves have a bottom-line of creating income,…income alone cannot be the motivating factor for your decision to start a HBB. While people trying to get others to JOIN their company are QUICK to point out all the “conveniences” of having a HBB – working from home, setting your own work schedule, being available for the activities your children or grandchildren have, not having a ceiling on the amount of money you can earn, no commute to work, etc. etc.. They tend to conveniently leave out the VERY REAL downside of having a HBB.

Yes – you get to work from home – BUT YOU WILL WORK HARDER FOR YOURSELF, THAN YOU’LL EVER WORK FOR SOMEONE ELSEat least if you are planning on creating the kind of income that changes your life and lifestyle. Anyone who gives you the impression that you will just “plug in” to something and start raking in the cash, is full of crap! That’s not a business, that is a lottery ticket line, a slot machine at a casino, or a sleight of hand opportunity on a street corner.
REAL BUSINESSES TAKE WORK – A LOT OF IT
REAL INCOME DOESN’T JUST APPEAR – IT’S EARNED FROM EFFORT.
REAL LIFESTYLE CHANGES – DON’T COME FROM TRYING – BUT FROM DOING.

The information we are going to share with you is LIFE CHANGING, and it’s for people that want to do more than just “get by” in life – people who aren’t going to be happy with just making ‘enough’ to live on, people who aren’t interested in living hand-to-month, scraping together what they need this month, and starting the process all over again next month.

People who have a dream to be more, do more, and have more than what they are, do, or have now….and are so passionate and determined to achieve it, that things like hard work, long hours, frustrating learning curves, and going outside their comfort zone…are just par for the course.

People who understand there are times when you have nothing to show for all your hard work accept the dream of what’s to come,..and it’s enough. THOSE are the kind of people this information will highly-benefit and take to where they want to go in life.

Tomorrow, we begin the journey into the world of finding a legitimate home based business you can build your financial empire on!

To Your Growth and Profit,

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The Gold in ‘Psycho-Babble’

When you come to the Internet and all you want to do is tap into some information that shows you “how to make money online”….finding information that talks about developing yourself, about unraveling and unwinding who you are to discover your potential…can sound like nothing more than feel good psycho-babble” that has nothing to do with creating income.

And you’re right, it would seem that way…if your objective is purely to put some cash in your pockets.

But it is that kind of flawed thinking that keeps 98% of those who try to use the Internet like a cyber slot machine, poor. That keeps them jumping from one dead-end promise of instant wealth and instant success, to another.

It’s not like there are just a few people out there who need MONEY to survive and live – we do, you do,…we all do. And there is nothing comfortable about not having enough of it, but here’s something you can take to the bank,…you will N-E-V-E-R have enough, as long as your focus is only on your immediate monetary needs and not on how you can increase your value as a human being – in order to attract more money to you. And all the stuff that sounds like ‘psycho-babble’  – is really the key to creating the kind of money that allows you to realize your dreams.

Now it’s perfectly logical for you to ask,...“Okay, let’s say I accept that, HOW exactly does that work?”

Did you ever read the book “Acres of Diamonds”? – if not, email me, I will send you a copy to read -  kathdanch@gmail.com - What the book boils down to is an extremely valuable object lesson – every person has the potential to MAKE MORE of themselves than they are -  ‘right now’ -  where they stand, within the circumstances and environment they are subjected to….IF THEY CHOOSE TO.

When you immerse yourself in the books, videos, and audios that alter your thinking, you alter your life – here’s how . the reason it is so impossible for you to imagine how reading a book or listening to a video or audio is going to drastically change your life is because you haven’t been introduced yet to the NEW idea, thought, or possibility, that is “waiting for you” as you go through the process.

When you expose your mind to new and different input that goes beyond the ’same old, same old’ rehashed information that’s created the life you have now…it’s like watering a dry patch of ground. As the water seeps below the surface it comes in contact with seeds of potential that have laid dormant within you. Suddenly you have a thought – you’ve never had before. That expands into an idea – you’ve never considered before. Which turns into an opportunity to do something different – didn’t exist before.  THAT is how, what appears to be mere psycho-babble, introduces the possibility of change into your life.

You want to know how to access TRUE SUCCESS? Don’t allow where you are NOW in life to determine for you the potential of your limitless future. Ignore the messages you’ve held onto that threaten to keep you where you are, DARE to imagine there is something more, and BE WILLING to, without fail… daily take the small steps that when accumulated over a period of time, will create BIG changes in your life.

“Fear not that thy life
shall come to an end,
but rather that it shall
never have a beginning.”
- Cardinal Newman

To your growth and profit,

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Are You “Stealing” From Others?

I don’t want to gloss over yesterdays post where we asked you: “What Do You Consider To Be The Most Interesting Thing In The World?”…because it is just too important when it comes to your success in life.

If you’re like me when I first read that question years ago, your mind immediately started making a list of all the extraordinary tangible things you could think of…places, people, topics, etc., or, you immediately thought of things like Mr. Prevette referred to in his book, love, nature, art, etc..

I’m sure the number of us whose thoughts went to “ourselves” as the most interesting thing in the world, was far and few between! Probably because when we think about that question, we conjure up thoughts of ‘external’ things…and unless the people around you are constantly telling you…‘you’re the most interesting person in the world‘…your natural inclination was to think of anything, but you!

But hopefully, once you read the thoughts that followed the question, they made you stop in your tracks, and consider “YOU”. We get so wrapped up in the external part of our lives, that it’s easy to lose “YOU” in the process. We define ourselves according to who others need us to be,…and spend our time fulfilling those roles. Then before you know it, you come to a place in life where everyone else is out living their life, and you’re sitting there trying to remember who you are without them to define you. (that is the first-hand voice of experience talking)

This is important to understand! – by being all things to all people EXCEPT YOURSELF you not only rob yourself of the JOY of  living the extraordinary life possible for you,…you literally rob those closest to you, that you love, of the opportunity to live and experience it also.

My daughter was out of the house and my son was 16 when I was 40-years-old. Through a series of events, I ended up traveling overseas, it was my first experience going outside the borders of the USA. (Another story for another time) When I came back 4 months later, I came back with a higher purpose, a mission in life as I was offered a position to be an International Liaison/Spokesperson between the US and Europe and an Institute in Nepal. The Institute brought children destined to die in the villages they were born into in the mountains..to Kathmandu and provided them with boarding and an education. I was so excited. I had put so much of myself in those around me for years, and it felt like I was finally taking a step forward for ME!

Two months later, my daughter had twin daughters, and due to yet another series of events,….my role as International Liaison evaporated into thin air…as I accepted the role instead of becoming a “full-time mom”…..again…to my granddaughters.

I won’t tell you I didnt feel sorry for myself for a while, even though “I” made a conscious choice to do it as opposed to having them put into the foster system. That was never even a choice for me. I knew I was doing the right thing, but once again, my life was filled with what OTHERS needed from me, and I put myself back on hold.

I am an adamant reader and believer in developing ourselves as people,…but it wasn’t until one day when one of my 5-year-old granddaughters were talking to me…THAT IT HIT ME! She had big dreams too because her grandma taught her too…and by not focusing on MY dreams in life, I was also stifling hers! The unlimited potential within me, could be a stepping stone for her own dreams! I wasn’t just keeping myself back, I was keeping everyone I loved around me back, from living the extraordinary life that was possible ‘through me’.

Failing to make yourself one of your priorities in life, to ignore or set aside your obligation to YOU to improve and develop yourself daily, doesn’t just effect you. By not becoming FULLY the person you are capable of being, you deny MANY lives of their full potential also, lives that needed your extraordinary life to influence and change theirs.

There is NOTHING EASY about fitting YOU into YOUR life - a life consumed with responsibilities, duties and obligations to others,…but THIS is it, THIS IS your life, and if you don’t pay attention to it, if you don’t make YOU a priority, it will be done and over with before you know it, and you will will feel bad not only for what you did not give yourself, but because you never gave those you love what you hoped for either. That does not happen by accident, it is a deliberate intent, followed by conscious, calculated, purposeful ACTION.

YOU NEED TO BE THE MOST INTERESTING THING IN THE WORLD TO “YOU”. That doesn’t mean you neglect others, it means you don’t neglect YOU.

Remember – you don’t even know what you are capable of yet! You won’t know that until you start to dig, that’s when you discover the HIDDEN resources and latent abilities buried within your potential that you didn’t even know existed.

Focus on taking the time to become the most interesting thing to YOU…it is a journey that ends up being a win-win for you and everyone around you!

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The Most Interesting Thing In The World

Let me ask you a question -
“What do you consider the most interesting thing in the world is?”

Think about that a moment,…off the top of your head,…what comes to mind? WHAT IS the most interesting thing in the world to you?

I was reading a book I’ve read a few times before and I was reminded of that question.  I thought about the first time that question was presented to me several years ago, and what my answer was. Did you come up with yours yet??

The book was written in 1949,  it never ceases to amaze me the way books written 50 – 100 years ago are completely relevant for this day and age, it’s because there are certain foundational principles and truths in life that never change, regardless of how much time passes.

SO what is your answer? WHAT do you consider the MOST interesting thing in the world??

Now let me ask you something else,…did you think of “YOU”? That YOU are the most interesting thing in the world??

Let me share an excerpt from the book with you:
“How To Turn Your Abilities Into Cash” – Earl Prevette
Chapter 7

Some years ago I was instrumental in sending out a questionnaire to several hundred leading people throughout the country, whose activities covered every phase of human endeavor. The questionnaire simply asked: “What do you consider the most interesting thing in the world?” The answers received were as different as they were interesting. Some said life; some said love; some said nature; some said religion; some said art; some said sculpture; some said education; some said science, and some said business. Some said one thing and some said another. All were right in a way.

The most interesting thing in the world is You. It is only proper and fitting to pause a moment and appraise You by giving a few estimations that may inspire you to greater achievement. Seldom do you appreciate what you are or what you are capable of doing. It must come from some outside source. You take yourself too much as a matter of fact. You have not taken time to take stock of yourself, to analyze your capacities, to realize fully your strength and power, and really to discover what a wonderful creature you are, nor to uncover the latent forces and abilities you possess. You forget that: “Ye are the salt of the earth.” “Ye are the Light of the World.” You forget that you are the most wonderful thing that God ever created. You fail to remember that Mind and its ideas have dominion over the earth and all things in it, making you the Master.

You must be reminded that it is You who can think, who can comprehend, who can co-ordinate, who can analyze and visualize, who can imagine and dramatize, and see a completed thing from the blue print. You merely take as a matter of course that it is You who invent, discover and build the marvelous things around you. It is You who harnesses the forces of nature and turns those forces into light, power and heat, to make the world comfortable. It is You who can mix ideas with natural resources and turn them into economic values, to be enjoyed by all. It is You who have the faith, the vision, the determination and the courage to turn your ability into cash, and to plant ideas that will not only enrich your life but also that will make America a better nation–a better place in which to live.

You lose sight of yourself through the mass of things you create. You get lost among your own things. You must come out in the open and make yourself known.

The most undeveloped field in this country, the richest mine that you will ever know anything about, lies right under your hat–right above your collar. At this very moment this great mine is waiting for you to develop it. What it will yield, what it will produce, nobody knows, not even you. You will never know the unlimited resources at your command until you begin to dig into them. By searching you will discover hidden powers and latent abilities that you never thought existed. By digging you will uncover droughts and ideas that will not only enrich your pocketbook, but also that will fill your life with a fuller and deeper appreciation. By sifting, you will see an infinite variety of opportunities. A new world with untold wealth will be revealed to you. Things that you never dreamed of. You will have a fuller, richer and more beautiful life.

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Take these words to heart! It is so easy to get LOST in the barrage of “what is around us” that we easily forget “what is within us!”

It is what lies within you, that gives you the unlimited potential to live your dreams!

To Your Growth and Profit,

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